37 weeks pregnant. We have arrived at that magical point in time where, if I went into labor right now, there would be no attempt to slow or stop it; they would just let baby come. This is all kinds of exciting! Not that I’m wishing time away (it’s going quickly enough on it’s own!), but I’m just so damn excited to meet this kid I can’t help but want her to come sooner. And as I’ve said, I’m feeling very little anxiety or fear over labor and delivery, so whenever it happens is good with me!
We are also now at the point where I have weekly prenatal appointments. This week’s was a bit of a doozy, as it involved an internal exam (never fun) and a swab for Group B Strep. This is a bacteria that many adult women carry in their systems which is mostly harmless for them, but which can infect the baby as it passes through the birth canal and potentially cause problems. Moms who test positive for Group B Strep have to have a constant antibiotic IV drip during labor and delivery, so I’m hoping and praying that I DON’T have the bacteria cause I really don’t want to be continuously hooked up to an IV. Send some good vibes my way for this one!
This was my final week at work, which was of course bittersweet. This job was the second-longest I’ve stayed anywhere in my working career, and I will miss my colleagues and the office culture something fierce. I’ve never worked at a company that valued its employees so highly, and really took the work hard/play hard mentality to heart. I also feel really bad for leaving because I don’t really feel like my replacement is up to snuff, and it sort of seems like I’m leaving my team in the lurch. I know that’s not my fault and not my problem, but it’s still hard.
Preparations are mostly complete at this point. The only nagging thing is getting the car seat installed, but we should be able to get that done this week. Otherwise, hospital bags are packed and waiting by the front door. Her room is mostly a room and less of a storage space. Laundry is done and put away. Diapers and wipes stand at the ready. Of course, there are still a few other little things I’d like to get done (still don’t have curtains or a bookshelf), but they aren’t necessary things. For the first several months she’ll be sleeping in a bassinet in our room anyway, so having a complete and “perfect” nursery just isn’t a top priority for me.
I’m really hoping that I end up having some time to myself before Baby Girl decides to come. I know the general wisdom is that first-time moms go late, but you just never know. She’s still riding really high in my belly and my cervix was still closed up tight at this week’s appointment so I think I’ve got a wait ahead of me, but I don’t want to make any assumptions. My plan for these next two weeks (or however long I get!) is to fill the time with fun stuff I may not get to do for a while. I have a list of friends I want to spend time with, I’d love to get a pedicure, go to yoga as much as possible, and have a date night or two with Ben. I also plan to focus on alone time, as I know it’s one thing that’s about to become pretty scarce. Maybe a solo trip to the movies?
In other news, I finally broke down and bought an ambidextrous wrist brace. The carpal tunnel symptoms were getting so bad, particularly at night, that I pretty much wasn’t sleeping. I was reluctant to spend $30 on a piece of foam and fabric this late in the game, but one of the girls in my yoga class told me it had helped her immensely, and with the ambidextrous brace, I can alternate which wrist I wear it on and get maximum benefit with minimum cost. I am happy to report that since I started wearing the brace at night, I’ve been sleeping SO MUCH BETTER. I’m just pissed that I didn’t get one sooner and save myself a lot of sleepless nights. Oh well. Live and learn.
Mamas, did you take any time for yourself before baby came? What did you do?