This was my first week out of work and waiting for baby. It’s incredibly surreal to be expecting this big, life-changing event, but to have no idea when it’s actually going to happen! I mean, I know they won’t let me go past 42 weeks gestation, so she’ll be here in a month or less, but still. It could literally be ANY moment between now and then. I could go into labor first thing in the morning or the middle of the night or while I’m at yoga class. Or I might go all the way to 42 weeks and have to be induced. It’s so wild!
At this point, I’m more than ready for her to make her appearance. In the last week, I’ve gotten a lot more uncomfortable. I’m still not having any Braxton-Hicks contractions, but I just feel off. Eating often makes me feel nauseated or overly full (or both!), but I’m hungry all damn day. I actually woke up at 3 am one day this week, had a bowl of cereal, and went back to bed! I have also had some brief twinges of pain down low in my belly, which is indicative that she’s moving down into my pelvis to prepare for labor and delivery. While the wrist brace is helping me with carpal tunnel symptoms, the belly is a lot bigger and more unwieldy, so it’s hard to move around and find a comfortable position to sleep in.
We met our new pediatrician on Monday, which was great. We picked the pediatric office that Ben used to go to when he was little, and Dr. Monahan is one of the most popular docs in the practice. After our meeting, I can see why people like her so much. She was incredibly friendly and easy to talk to. She immediately felt like someone I would feel comfortable asking anything and everything related to my child’s health, which is invaluable for nervous first-time parents like us. And she was wearing Wonder Woman earrings, which just made me like her more!
Since I’m not at work, I have been nesting like a mo-fo. I’ve been making huge, detailed to-do lists each day and actually doing a fairly decent job of getting stuff done. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you don’t spend 8 hours a day at the office! So far I’ve done some curtain shopping, hung said curtains, gone for lots of walks, made lots of phone calls, had some friend time, and done lots of fiddly little projects I’ve been putting off for ages. I know that my time for productivity will be coming to an end very soon, so I’m trying to make the most of what I’ve got. Of course, I’m also 38+ weeks pregnant, so there’s been plenty of time on the couch with my feet up too! Skyrim has been back in my life lately, and I’m pretty happy about it 🙂
We went to a concert on Thursday night, which was a huge accomplishment for me. I stayed out way past my bedtime, and it was totally worth it. We saw Sturgill Simpson as part of the Ben and Jerry’s Concerts on the Green series at Shelburne Museum. Ben LOVES Sturgill, so I got the tickets as an early birthday present way back in the early spring. Ever since I bought them, I’ve been praying that Baby Girl would stay in long enough for us to get to the show, and she happily obliged! Ben confessed to me after the concert that he was sort of hoping that I would go into labor while we were there, which had also been on my mind! But no, Baby Girl seems to be quite happy in utero for the time being.
Sadly, my Group B Strep test came back positive, meaning I will need IV antibiotics during labor and delivery. While this is certainly not ideal, I know that there’s nothing I could have done to prevent it, so I’ve decided to just accept it and move on. It shouldn’t impact my mobility, and it will also mean that I’m just that much more ready if there are additional concerns or complications as labor progresses. The only real bummer is that if my water breaks before labor truly begins, I HAVE to go to the hospital to begin IV antibiotics; I won’t be able to labor at home at all.
Mamas and preggos, how did/do you deal with the waiting game?